Saturday, April 30, 2022

New Furniture?, Dead Fish, Shopping, and Books

This post is mostly me thinking out loud. And maybe someday after we get new furniture, I can read this again and see what I said here that I wanted and what we actually got.
 
 
About a week ago, I told Charlie that I've been thinking about getting new living room furniture. I also want to completely change the look of the living room - not just furniture, but also paint, curtains (we need new curtains anyway), and possibly the art on the walls. Though I do love the pictures in the living room, so I don't know if I'll actually be able to do that. lol

I told Charlie that I don't want to be one of those people who have the same furniture, paint color, and decor for decades. Like when you walk into a grandparent's or aunt's house and it looks just like it did in the '70s or '80s. If it's financially possible (and I understand when it isn't), I want to be able to replace furniture that's dated or stained/wore out/falling apart and freshen things up with new paint color and so on every 10-15 years. Twenty at most if the furniture stays in good shape for that long.
 
I bought our furniture back in February 2009 and it's starting to get wore down and stained in places. Plus, Charlie wants to be able to recline in front of the TV and our couch doesn't recline. He actually said he just wants two recliners in the place of the couch and I told him that this isn't a bachelor pad. lol I want an actual couch. So I said we could get a couch that reclines. (The couch we had before reclined - the two end seats.) But he says he doesn't want a reclining couch. *sigh*

Anyway, our current couch is dark brown and the two chairs (which are recliners, but aren't that comfortable) are an ivory/light beige/cream color. Since our floors are a medium to dark brown, I'd like to get either a gray or navy/dark blue couch. (Or maybe even a forest or dark green.) I don't think it works really having brown floors and a brown couch. lol Maybe whatever chairs I choose could be patterned? I don't know. I'm still thinking about it. Though I don't know when we'll be able to get new furniture. I'm hoping next year, but we'll see.
 
This was when the furniture was brand new. I've had a couple blankets (a blue and white afghan and a couple Indian/Mexican blankets) on the back of the couch for years to help the cats not sink down between the cushions and the back of the couch and to have blankets nearby to cover up with.
 
 
There's a second chair like this one on the other side of the living room. Both chairs have a brown throw covering the upper/upright/back part of the chair. The chairs and tables are in different positions/places now, but on the same side as they were when I took these pictures.
 
 
This table is quite beaten up now - between Charlie's hot bowls/plates when eating (I put a place mat there a few years ago after some damage had already been done) and scratches and nicks from cats and years of use, it's not as beautiful as it was. We won't be getting a new TV table.
 

Our current wall color is a beige color. (Bermuda sand - it almost looks pink in certain light, but you can't tell if you're not really looking for it.) I don't know what color I want to change it to. Actually, I thought about a shade of blue, but our kitchen is green and that would be too much color in one area. And I don't want to change the kitchen color because I still love it. Our dining room (more like aquarium room because Charlie's aquarium and all the stuff that goes with it has pretty much taken over :-/ ) is light yellow. If we go with an actual color (rather than a neutral like beige or gray, which I don't care for), it would have to work with the kitchen color and I would probably carry it over into the dining room so that we don't have three different colors in that area. I know we technically have three different colors now, but the living room is a neutral, so I think it works fine.
 
If you enlarge the first picture above, you can see the wall colors of the kitchen and dining room a bit better.
 
The hallway is the same color as the living room. I'd want to carry any new color down that way also. So probably nothing too dark in such a narrow space.

The curtains are a light to medium blue. I got them to go with the blue of the throw pillows. They were cheap, have a few stains now, and are a bit too shiny. lol I'm not going to think about what color curtains I want until we get new furniture and I can decide what will look good with it.
 

So, yeah, I'm thinking about making a change in the living room and hoping I can get Charlie to go along with it by some time next year. We still owe on the floors, so it isn't likely to happen this year. I want the change not just because I'd like something new, but mostly because of the condition of the furniture. As I mentioned earlier, worn out spots, stains, and the cushions on the back of the couch are starting to tear away from the back part.

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Tuesday, April 26th, our fish Gandalf died. We found him on the bottom of the tank and a few of the hermit crabs were around him. I guess trying to eat him. He was Charlie's favorite fish. :-/ Poor Gandalf.

Our blue tang fish, Dolores, isn't coming out as much and it didn't look like he/she was interested in eating during the last feeding, so I'm afraid he/she might die soon as well.

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Since my last entry (the one before the beach meme), I've made a few new purchases.

Each of the following pairs of heels are by Dream Pairs and were bought from Amazon. I first bought them in yellow to go with the dress I got for Easter last year. And then I got them in blush patent later that same year, I think.


I paid around $33 for these after tax.


These were about $39.



These were less than $31.



I ordered this London Times dress from someone on eBay. (This is their picture. I take no credit for it.) I paid less than $27 after tax. Shipping was free.


I ordered this Connected Apparel dress from someone on Poshmark. (This is their picture. I take no credit for it.) I paid $59 and change after shipping and tax. More than I would normally pay, but I think it's beautiful and I really wanted it. I think the original price was around $100.

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I started reading the 9th Outlander book, Go Tell the Bees That I am Gone, in late November of last year, but I'm nearly halfway through the book and not a lot has happened. (I've never been bored with an Outlander book before and it's never taken me this long to read an Outlander book, even though they're big books.) So, a few days ago I started reading the 5th book in the Surviving the Evacuation series - Reunion. A nice change of pace. I'm really liking it so far. I'll either go back to Bees after I finish Reunion or possibly read book 6 in the Surviving series and then go back to Bees.

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Well, I reckon that's it for this update. My internet keeps going out, so I hope I can get this published and not lose it if my internet goes out again. :-/

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Thursday, April 28, 2022

Beach Meme

1. When is the last time you saw the ocean?
 
September 2016.

2. Where is your favorite stretch of beach shoreline?
 
Cape Lookout and Caswell Beach, NC.

3. Are you planning a beach vacation this year?
 
Not really, but I hope we can go for at least a few days at some point this year.

4. Bikinis or one-piece?
 
Neither. I wear a skirt and top.
 
5. Do you sunbathe or sit under an umbrella?
 
We've only used a beach umbrella a couple times, but I would choose to sit under an umbrella over sunbathing if I'm not walking the beach taking pictures and collecting seashells.
 
6. Have you ever been to a nude beach?
 
No.
 
7. Favorite activity at the beach while on vacation?
 
As far as the beach itself, I like going in the late afternoon when most of the people who are mostly naked have left. I love walking the beach, collecting seashells, and taking pictures of the sunset. Plus, the worst of the heat is gone by then and we don't have to worry about getting too hot or sunburned. 
 
As far as the coast in general, I enjoy going to historical locations, lighthouses, museums, carriage rides (Wilmington), aquariums, etc.

8. Condo, hotel or cottage rental?
 
Hotel.
 
9. What beach in the whole wide world would you like to visit for the first time?
 
Somewhere in New Zealand.
 
10. Did you ever have a special romantic time at the beach?
 
No.

11. Favorite beach memory?
 
I can't pick one favorite beach memory. All the best beach memories were made with my husband and kids.
 
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Thursday, April 21, 2022

Taxes Done, Ancestry Stuff, Easter, Etc.

I had an appointment to get our taxes done on Wednesday, April 13th, at an older woman's home in Asheboro. (Almost 20 minutes from my house.) My mom somehow knew her or found out about her, had her do her taxes, and recommended her to me and Charlie. When I got to her place and she started going through our papers she told me that Charlie's W2 was not in the folder. *sigh* So I had to go back the next day. Everything she needed was in the folder this time and she was able to do our taxes.

Charlie did our taxes last year and we owed federal. We were supposed to get a refund from state and we were going to use that towards what we owe federal (it would cover most of it), but we never got the refund. When Charlie contacted whoever, they told him to re-file. So hopefully now we'll get our refund from state so that we can pay federal. I think we'll end up with a little bit of money after all that. (From this year's taxes.) I expect Charlie will put it in savings - he's trying to save up for a truck.

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The 1950 census was released a couple weeks ago. So far I've only been able to find my mom's dad's parents and a few of his siblings. I haven't spent a whole lot of time searching because the number of pages is overwhelming. Hopefully I'll find some more relatives soon. In 1950 my grandparents and great-grandparents lived in North Carolina, Massachusetts, and California.
 
Charlie's parents and grandparents lived in North Carolina, Tennessee, and California.

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Sean's birthday was Saturday, April 9th. He's 25 now. Hard to believe. Charlie took him to a drag race in Dunn for his birthday (a couple friends went with them) and bought him a racing (NHRA?) jacket. I got him a card. Ashley made him a cake. I don't know what she got him.

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Ancestry DNA recently had another update. I lost Norway again. Dang it! lol Here are our (me, Charlie, my mom) new results:

Mine.

 

Sardinia was a surprise. We haven't seen that one in Charlie's DNA before.


Mom's.

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Easter was Sunday, April 17th. It was a beautiful day - sunshine, about 71°. I would've preferred a couple degrees warmer, but it's better than the low to mid 60s they had been predicting about a week earlier. I kept praying for it to get into the 70s and I would cheer every time I checked my phone app and saw that the forecasted temperature had gone up.

I wore the green floral dress that I posted a picture of a couple blog entries ago. I was going to wear the pink floral Jessica Howard, but since everyone wears pink (or white, purple, light blue) on Easter, I decided to wear the green one. Plus, green is my favorite color. 
 
I wore my blush (so light they're almost a nude color) patent sandals/heels (Dream Pairs; I bought them on Amazon), a white Talbot's shrug with lace trim down the front (along the part where it's open), wore my hair up (as I always do on Sundays), and carried my Etienne Aigner straw purse. All but the shoes were bought from either eBay (the dress) or Poshmark (shrug, purse).
 
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Church was awesome! It was basically just a worship service. Celebrating the Resurrection! Pastor did speak for about 10-15 minutes after we had sung several songs. And then we sang a few of them again after he was done.

I can't remember what all we sang, but some of them were Awakening by Eddie James, Take This City by The Pentecostals of Katy, This Means War by Charles Jenkins, Name Above All Names by Eddie James, Something Happens by James Wilson and Cortt Chavis. I think we may have also sung a couple others, including I Won't Let The Rocks Cry Out for Me. Each song flowed into the next with little to no break between songs. They did a pretty good job of keeping it moving. Most in the congregation were really into the worship.

I don't think we've ever had an Easter service like that (there's usually skits and/or songs that are all about Jesus' sacrifice and resurrection), but man did I love it! lol

After service, there were some give aways, a cook out (it was a nice day for eating outside), and candy for the kids. (Kelly had filled a lot of the plastic Easter eggs when we'd gone to clean the church on Saturday afternoon/evening.) We didn't stay for any of that though. We went on home and I made French toast and bacon.

I don't know how many people we had at church, but it looked nearly full to me. The most people we've had at church since covid.

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The last time I posted about new songs on my iPod was in November. Here are the songs I've purchased since then.


Click on the picture so you can see it better.

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I think it was this past Monday that Kelly's TV cut off and wouldn't come back on. So Charlie took her to Walmart yesterday after he got off work and bought her a new one. I don't know how much he spent. (Probably not much.) I forgot to ask. Using her PS4, she uses her TV for YouTube, Netflix, and Disney+, as well as video games.

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Sean was sick with a stomach virus Thursday, April 14th until this past Tuesday. He was also running a fever. I don't remember how high he said it got. I think the fever part was done by Sunday. He felt pretty awful and weak. I'm glad he's doing better now.

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Speaking of Sean, I haven't been to his and Ashley's place at all yet. They moved into their place this past December, but I've yet to make it over there. They work during the day and by the time they get home, I'm cooking supper (or about to) and then we eat and by then it's kind of late to be hanging out at someone's house. They're hardly home on the weekends during the day. I reckon I'll make it over there someday. lol

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Since my last blog entry, I've bought a couple skirts.




Ralph Lauren (Polo Jeans Company). I bought this from someone on eBay. Less than $30 after shipping and tax. (This is their picture. I take no credit for it.) I bought this because it's 100% cotton. The vast majority of modern jean skirts have stretch in them and it can be unflattering if you're not skinny. They hug you in places you don't want hugged. lol
 
 

Banana Republic leopard print skirt. I bought this from someone on eBay. I paid less than $22 after shipping and tax. (This is their picture. I take no credit for it.) Green is my favorite color and it can sometimes be difficult to find cute green clothes.

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Well, I reckon that's it for now. :-)

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Thursday, April 7, 2022

This and That

I was going to get the taxes done this past Tuesday, but I had trouble sleeping. I will try again this coming Tuesday.

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Some time early last week, I realized I had no chocolate! *gasp* When I went grocery shopping on Saturday, I bought several chocolate items - brownie mix, a few boxes of Goobers, Pepperidge Farm Brussels cookies, a bag of fun size Baby Ruth, a bag of fun size 100 Grand, and some chocolate pudding. Of those things, I've had a few 100 Grands.

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Entry before last, I posted a song I've been loving. Here are two more:



 
We sing both of these songs at my church. Both done awesomely and with anointing and power! I love it when we sing them.

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I fell asleep on the couch and when I woke up around 10:30 PM or so, both Charlie and Kelly had gone to bed. I've been feeling kind of "off" and a little down/blue ever since. I think because I need to hug and kiss them goodnight before they go to bed or things just don't feel right. I think also partly because I expect to start ovulating (sorry if TMI) this weekend and that not only makes me more tired than usual and causes my skin to break out (I'm 49, for goodness sake!), but it also sometimes affects my mood. It doesn't put me in a bad mood, but I reckon it can make me melancholy and make me cry easier. I already cry pretty easily. :-/

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Sean's birthday is this Saturday. He'll be 25. That just seems crazy to me. Feels like he should only be 15 or maybe 18. It's true what they say. It feels like you blink and they're grown. He hasn't told me yet what he wants for his birthday. Too busy with working at the church, married life, and playing video games, I reckon.
 
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